What should I do about flirty neighbor that flashes me while gardening?
She always shows up in my yard while I am gardening. She wears loose tops and bends over in front of me so that I can see her breasts. She never is wearing a bra either.
It is having an effect on me now, how do I handle?
We are both married and I know flirting. She is flirting with me, she fancies me. My wife even picked up on this. My problem is she is very attractive and my temptation is growing. An attractive woman really knows how to work it and make perfectly good husband have nasty thoughts.
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Answer by Dave Le
flash your penis back at her
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Dont look, I doubt shes has found a way to control what way your head is turning. It takes 2 to tango.
welll.. if you like it then dont do anything about it. but if not tell her you are uncomfortable which would probably embarrass her and solve the problem quickly
Build a privacy fence.
call the cops
try not to look, approach her and talk about it, otherwise, keep looking dude
If you enjoy the show and are willing to risk possible embarassment but willing to take the chance that she is inviting you for more say out loud enough for her to hear “WHOA!”
go do some plowing kiddo and sow some seeds haha. what do you want me to tell you ? go get some!!!!!.
There are some great trellising plants you can buy and just let them trail up the fence between you. Or plant some fast-growing bamboo or trees. Women shouldn’t taunt men like that – its not nice (and I am a woman – guys tell me what y’all have to go through when women do that! I hear it’s torcher!) I like clematis, trumpet flowers, or even edible bean/pea pods. Maybe she’ll get the hint. She needs to get a life.
just dont look, dont make a big deal out of it, it will really embarrass her, just dont LOOK!!!! in the whole realm of things, does this really matter?? you should be so lucky to have such a small problem, think about those at war, those families gone those who have lost a brother, a dad, a husband, a loved one, i have lost a classmate there, so just be thankful this is your little problem
Bend her over the patio table and give her a good shafting
Is she attracted to you, or is she just a outgoing type person? If she doesn’t realize she is doing it, then talk to her about it, in a gentlemanly way. Tell her how you feel, the truth won’t hurt either of you. Who knows, this might be the start of something! Good luck!
dude unless your gay i dont see the problem, she must want you so go do somethign about it. Take her up!
she may not know she is doing it,let her know it is happening and tell her you are interested if you are,she will make the next move.
are you married
if so tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable that she’s showing her self to you
and if your not married
either tell her that she needs to put some clothes on or ask her out maybe she will put clothes on for the date(ha-ha)
i’m sure if you say something she will stop doing these things
If you’re not married…wear short no breifs and lay out in the yard….it will either confirm you suspicions or she just doen’t realize she is hangingout all over you.
Ask her out if I am flashing someone it is because I want attention it’s rarely done by accident. If her attention is unwanted stop looking she will get the picture.
if your’re not interested tell her to stay in her own yard
Invite a pretty girl.
you are human and I do not blame you –however; these types of whores exist everywhere and that is the master manipulator a woman uses –the next being tears–if you are married and she is married don’t touch her with a ten foot pole–my husband was a good looking very engaging person and fell prey to these types and they got him on drugs –which he wanted to try–he’s lying in the back bedroom as we communicate suffering from a stroke from the drugs–not trying to preach but this is one subject that gets my dander up big time
First of all, I respect that you want to respect her, and respect yourself by not oogling her.
I would very sternly ask her to stop coming over. Or make it clear that if she would like to visit you that she needs to dress more modestly. That you are not wanting or desiring a “show”. This will probably embarrass her enough to make her stop.
If you have a reason (i.e. faith, marriage, recovering sex addict) than be honest with her. Let her know that she is making herself into an emotional problem in your life by her dress and behaviour.
I’m sure she will try to be more helpful if you are honest.
The bible says, if someone has offended you, we are to go to that person in private and confront them. We should give them the chance to set it right for their self. And when that does not work, we are to confront them with others (your wife).
One thing you can do is look the other way and not pay any attention to it. If you don’t look, she will get the message sometime. If that is not something you can do easily, talk to her and let her know that you really don’t want her coming over if she is going to do that or have your wife talk with her and let her know to either stop or she is not welcome.